主题：真爱假爱 -- gogreen

我觉得，完美的婚姻还是要来自于真爱，双方向的真爱。因为有了真爱，双方就能欣赏对方的优点，容忍对方的缺点，就会负责任，讲道德。家庭生活往往不是一滩死水，而是随着某个equilibrium有幅度波动的。但是经过风雨后，幸福的家庭最终又总能回到equilibrium。如果不能在一定时间内回到equilibrium，那么婚姻就很可能会走向终点。

有数学家和心理学家一起研究出了一个数学婚姻模型，还为此出版了一本书。据他们的研究表明，模型预测结果准确度高达94%。他们的模型是根据实际心理实验数据产生的。心理试验就是请很多很多对夫妇到实验室，然后给个冲突的引子，让他们争吵十几分钟。experimenters时时记录他们争吵过程的情绪和用语的变化。模型是一个非线性的动态模型。有两个基本方程，一个是丈夫的情绪和语言怎么改变妻子的情绪和语言，另一个是妻子的怎么改变丈夫的。他们的基本观点就是，夫妻之间可以吵架，但是一定要床头吵架床尾合，也就是说负面的互动不要造成感情上的伤害，不能超过某个threshould。如果超过了，离婚的概率就很大。

转个搞笑的marriage equation:

Equation 1

Human = eat + sleep + work + enjoy

Donkey = eat + sleep

Therefore,

Human = Donkey + work + enjoy

Therefore,

Human – enjoy = Donkey + work

In other words,

Human that don’t know enjoy = Donkey that work

Equation 2

Men = eat + sleep + earn money

Donkeys = eat + sleep

Therefore,

Men = Donkeys + earn money

Therefore,

Men – earn money = Donkeys

In other words,

Men that don’t earn money = Donkeys

Equation 3

Women = eat + sleep + spend

Donkeys = eat + sleep

Therefore,

Women = Donkeys + spend

Therefore,

Women – spend = Donkeys

In other words,

Women that don’t spend = Donkeys

To Conclude:

From Equation 2 and Equation 3

Men that don’t earn money = Women that don’t spend.

So, Men earn money not to let women become Donkeys! (Postulate 1)

And, Women spend not to let men become Donkeys! (Postulate 2)

So, we have?

Men + Women = Donkeys + earn money + Donkeys + spend money

Therefore from Postulates 1 and 2, we can conclude

Man + Woman = 2 Donkeys that live happily together!