主题：【Help】爱的痛了。 -- 断坠儿

When You Fall In Love . . .

. . . it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it isn't conceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.

Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. To not lying awake at night imagining he is kissing every part of your body. No, don't blush. I'll tell you some truths. For that is just being in love, which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over; when being in love has burned away. It doesn't sound very exciting, does it? But it is . . .

---from Captain Corelli's Mandolin， 一部非常优美的电影。

祝一切都好

不敢到这栏来是怕帮别人做感情医生。

妹妹可要想好呀，不要 让自己后悔。

我这几天正在看一个老韩剧，叫《爱情是什么》，挺有意思的。爱情究竟是什么呢？