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Most important thing is to realize that she will sense your feeling. If you shows that this is a difficult, or somewhat unpleasant place, she will feel it to. So at lease pretend that the place is a wonderful playground, and you bring her to play, not that you have to, then she will feel much better.

Secondly, stay with her for a few monent when you there, introduce her to her teacher and friends. If she observed you are trusting these people, she will feel safe. Tell her you will be back many times.

Do not force her, you could leave when she relaxed a little bit. Do not show that you have trouble leaving. She may cry, which is normal because unless she felt absolutely safe, she will want to stay with you. But this is normal. Once she found she can play, and you will be back at the time you promissed, she will be OK.

The hardest part is do not show attenting kindergarden is a big deal, which is.

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