主题：【讨论】关于 Bullying -- 记忆与疑问 -- 映日荷花

同事的女儿来自美国家庭，学习成绩很好。不太清楚家长和孩子是否经常聊天。下面是家长email的一段:

She is having a lot of anxiety with the new high school.

Her "best friend", which is really her only friend, is not there for her and is being pressured by her other friends to avoid her.

She's always been really quiet and had a hard time finding friends. She is really sweet and usually very nice, but her demeanour just makes it hard to fit in with social groups.

She's also very regimented with her routine - example would be, her class was never given lockers in the school, so we worked it out with the councelor for her to get a locker and thus she wouldnt need to carry around all her books and coat every day, and that would be better with her dizziness. But, she has not used the locker because (a) she is afraid to be the center of attention, being the only one in 9th grade to have a locker; and (b) if she goes to her locker before/after lunch, or at the end of the day, then she wont be the first one on the bus or at the lunch room... and we dont really understand why that is a problem for her...