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家园 数工科男生在恋爱上是有共同点的

一般来说人老实但有点木,做事讲求理性但缺乏浪漫,想法单纯但有点幼稚,想表白但怕伤害...。

Not really. Their personalities might not be correlated to their major.

It might be true they have little time or less chances to stay with girls. Moreover the ratio of female vs male is very low in their class. Thus some of them are lack of chances to learn what girls like and need. In addition, their courses are not as that easy as those literature or arts major guys.

However, the educated engineers are much expensive and useful than high school teachers, or semi-baked historic researchers. So just not hungary for falling in love. The whole proccess of looking for one's girl is a learning process. One gets mature from those learning experiences.

做事讲求理性 not neccessarily results in 缺乏浪漫. It could be true that the family environments are dull thus some people become not active. It is not true people become romantic because of reading those fancy love story novels. In colleage, my neigbours were Chinese literature students. I knew how dull they were. The general rule of love affairs in colleage is girls tend to be attracted by students senior than they. Handsome, good-looking, strong and in good shape, a good voice (singer), speaking fluent Mandrin, English, coming from big city, good family background, excellencies in studies, talktive, funny, knowning how to play some instruments, outstanding handwriting, all these factors could attract girls. At colleage time, girls might not know what she really needs. They are quite likely to be attracted by some fancy things.

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