主题：请北美及英国的河友指教 -- 吴用

i am seeing a loving parent wanting to do the very best for the child, and the prospect is neither easy nor very bright -- in practical real world terms.

I believe your love to the child shall be recognized by your child. it is the loving and caring that matters the most, and more than any practical gift you can give.

but be careful not to burden yourself with too much financial stress because it will be an emotional burden that is too heavy to bear.

(sorry i have to type in English)